SAFETY

Meet thoughtfully. Protect what matters.

Practical guidance for recognizing risk, protecting your privacy, and planning safer first meetings.

Confirm age, intent, and identity.

Never engage with anyone under 20

Use the platform only with adults who meet the site age requirement. If age or identity seems unclear, stop contact and report the profile. Never accept excuses for missing verification.

Recognize commercial solicitations

Be cautious when someone immediately quotes rates, offers timed services, pushes a hotel meeting, or refuses normal conversation. End contact and report any escort-like solicitation.

Reduce blackmail risk

Do not send intimate images, workplace details, financial documents, or identifying material that could be used against you. If threatened, save evidence, stop responding, report the account, and contact law enforcement when appropriate.

Look beyond claims and appearances.

Spot misleading wealth claims

Luxury photos, job titles, and bold promises do not prove financial stability or good character. Be cautious when someone avoids ordinary questions, pressures you to impress them, or makes promises that change quickly.

Watch for fake identities

Use in-site video chat and look for consistent details. Refusal to appear live, repeated emergencies, copied photos, or stories that never line up are reasons to stop and report.

Know common money scams

Never pay a fee to receive money, buy gift cards, deposit a check for someone else, share banking credentials, or move funds through your account. A deposited check can appear available before it is later reversed.

MEET & GREET SAFETY

Keep the first meeting public and simple.

Video first

Confirm identity and comfort with a short video call before meeting.

Choose the place

Meet in a busy public venue, stay sober, and avoid changing locations under pressure.

Stay independent

Use your own transportation, tell a trusted person your plan, and leave whenever you feel uncomfortable.

When something feels wrong

End the conversation, block the account, save relevant messages, and send a report to support. For threats, stalking, extortion, or immediate danger, contact local law enforcement or emergency services.

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